For example, as the youngest of six girls myself, I learned to get needs met by rebelling, getting angry, lashing out, pouting, crying, ignoring, hiding, or using other strategies. Our strategies become our auto-pilot "modus operandi" as adults, held in place and run by our ego / ego mind / pain body / conditioned self / subconscious mind (whatever term works for you; they all point to the same thing).
Breaking these problematic, habitual strategies is key to forming genuinely loving relationships in our lives as adults. How do we do that? We have to SEE our strategies clearly, and then we have to know HOW to shift them, and WHAT to.
I'm so proud of the women in the H.E.L.P. program who are mastering this challenge in their lives... WAY TO GO ladies! If you are ready to take on this challenge, click here.